It is difficult to find a better and more beautiful answer to this eternal question than the one revealed in just one line of nirvana upanishad ( swekshachar swaswabhavo mokshah param brahma – to behave , live and act in accordance with one’s own nature and to get firmly established within oneself is what is called liberation ,self-realisation ,supreme reality and god).
Swami Sacchidananda Saraswati
You are heaven and the other is hell
All through your life you have been looking for your heaven in others(outside) but you got only hell. Be sure that you will get only hell from others, because the other is verily hell . Your heaven is iying right inside you . Just stop running after the other and begin your journey within- you would see your heaven face to face .